How to approach a girl online?

CrypticX

Member
Do you want to talk to random girls and impress a girl online and show her how awesome you are? If you are not sure of how to start the conversation and what things you must talk about, then you are not alone. Talking to a random girl can feel baffling but it is surprisingly easy. You should always focus on coming across as fun and interesting while being respectful. Here are some tips you can follow while starting a conversation with a girl you like.
Build a great profile
The first and foremost thing you must do is to build the strongest profile possible. It doesn’t really matter how compelling your messages are. The first thing you need to do is share your bio, interests, pictures, and who you are while looking to impress someone.
Think about the kind of activities and hobbies you wish to share with others. Merely saying you have a sense of humor or are funny is not enough. Pick photos that display your friends, family, pets, and hobbies. Giving a snapshot of your life while you talk to a random girl makes you come across as someone genuine.
Be original
Have you ever wondered if pick-up lines work when you talk to girls? Girls might have heard every line in the book. Starting a conversation with nice and friendly tone is incredible but that could be a boring opener over. Remember, girls receive a lot of calls and messages. So, you need to try to be unique. Be original and make sure you stand out with what you say. Check if you have any common interests. Write with correct spelling and grammar.
Ask a simple question about her interests
People love talking about themselves. The girl you are interested in might appreciate that you put in efforts to learn her interests. Go through her profile and try to see what her hobbies and jobs are and come up with questions about them.
Avoid common mistakes
Girls put up with creepy dudes almost every other day. They would have heard every pickup line in the book. Forget sending inappropriate messages and pictures they haven’t asked for if you want to gain their attention. Put yourself above the rest by avoiding these common pitfalls.
  • - Stop using pick-up lines
  • - Do not start with their looks
  • - Do not share misleading pictures
  • - Do not copy and paste the same line you use with everyone you meet
  • - Don’t blab only about yourself
  • - Avoid using yes or no questions
  • - Use correct grammar. Avoid coming across as lazy
Conclusion
The goal of sending the first message when you talk to strangers is to initiate a conversation. You are trying to pique her interest enough so that she responds and the conversation flows and hopefully leads to a real-life date. Online dating allows you to be a unique opener while you want to chat with strangers. Be organic and friendly like you are talking to someone you already know. If you have things in common, then the conversation will flow naturally.
 

Kevin

Well-known member
I don’t think 13-14 yo boys would care about this either. In best case they’ll maybe ask for advice from friends but I’d never imagine a 13 yo boy randomly thinking they should visit a Kidschat forum just to find out how to “approach a girl”. Hopefully they already know the basics. If not, they have no reason to be on a chat site if they can’t already approach people nicely.

The best way to learn is from experience, not by reading articles that more or less look like copy paste scenarios. This thread seems more like an attention grabber to me. “Look at me, I think I’m smart enough to know how to teach other boys how to approach every girl online. I should tell everyone else what to do, because I know what every girl prefers”

Eh. No. If this thread would be necessary at all, it would’ve been appropriate if a girl, or multiple girls, wrote it. They know what they prefer. They know how they actually are treated. At this point it’s just you assuming what they’d like to see from a guy online. And assumptions don’t matter when it comes to real situations.

Like Lumi said, be yourself. Highly doubt any girl would fall for a guy strictly following paragraphs written by any guy online. If the 13-14 yo boys feel “social awkwardness”, they’ll learn from experience eventually. Still a very young age for someone to even consider serious relationships.

Maybe apply the advices you wrote down on yourself? Would be nice to see the results : )
- If you even manage to stick to them at all.
 

mxrshal

Member
Do you want to talk to random girls and impress a girl online and show her how awesome you are? If you are not sure of how to start the conversation and what things you must talk about, then you are not alone. Talking to a random girl can feel baffling but it is surprisingly easy. You should always focus on coming across as fun and interesting while being respectful. Here are some tips you can follow while starting a conversation with a girl you like.
Build a great profile
The first and foremost thing you must do is to build the strongest profile possible. It doesn’t really matter how compelling your messages are. The first thing you need to do is share your bio, interests, pictures, and who you are while looking to impress someone.
Think about the kind of activities and hobbies you wish to share with others. Merely saying you have a sense of humor or are funny is not enough. Pick photos that display your friends, family, pets, and hobbies. Giving a snapshot of your life while you talk to a random girl makes you come across as someone genuine.
Be original
Have you ever wondered if pick-up lines work when you talk to girls? Girls might have heard every line in the book. Starting a conversation with nice and friendly tone is incredible but that could be a boring opener over. Remember, girls receive a lot of calls and messages. So, you need to try to be unique. Be original and make sure you stand out with what you say. Check if you have any common interests. Write with correct spelling and grammar.
Ask a simple question about her interests
People love talking about themselves. The girl you are interested in might appreciate that you put in efforts to learn her interests. Go through her profile and try to see what her hobbies and jobs are and come up with questions about them.
Avoid common mistakes
Girls put up with creepy dudes almost every other day. They would have heard every pickup line in the book. Forget sending inappropriate messages and pictures they haven’t asked for if you want to gain their attention. Put yourself above the rest by avoiding these common pitfalls.
  • - Stop using pick-up lines
  • - Do not start with their looks
  • - Do not share misleading pictures
  • - Do not copy and paste the same line you use with everyone you meet
  • - Don’t blab only about yourself
  • - Avoid using yes or no questions
  • - Use correct grammar. Avoid coming across as lazy
Conclusion
The goal of sending the first message when you talk to strangers is to initiate a conversation. You are trying to pique her interest enough so that she responds and the conversation flows and hopefully leads to a real-life date. Online dating allows you to be a unique opener while you want to chat with strangers. Be organic and friendly like you are talking to someone you already know. If you have things in common, then the conversation will flow naturally.
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