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Squibbles

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Seriously how do y'all manage..
I've only ever been adopted into preexisting friend groups I've never had to go out of my way to make friends in real like HOW do you guys do this? Being in rooms with other people besides my family makes me feel like bawling and vomiting and I'm supposed to talk to these people and make friends.

HOW DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS WHAT EVEN IS AN ACTUAL IRL FRIEND.. WHAT DO FRIENDS DO????

Ty for reading mwa mwa
 
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It’s Soooooooooooooo easy for me to make a irl friend. And I have many :33.. Having a good and funny conversation with ppl is how u can be friend with it as I do LOL.
 
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Squibbles said:
Seriously how do y'all manage..
I've only ever been adopted into preexisting friend groups I've never had to go out of my way to make friends in real like HOW do you guys do this? Being in rooms with other people besides my family makes me feel like bawling and vomiting and I'm supposed to talk to these people and make friends.

HOW DO YOU MAKE FRIENDS WHAT EVEN IS AN ACTUAL IRL FRIEND.. WHAT DO FRIENDS DO????

Ty for reading mwa mwa
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oh MAN!!! tbh idk like when I was in school I'd uhh uhh.. be like.. "You look SOOOOOO cool frfr!" "You're sooooo pretty" OR JUST LIKE BE A NICE PERSON!!! You could also do assignments with people in groups, bake stuff for the class or something..! then when you have an irl friend or friends you guys hangout, go to eachothers house and play games or go to the park or go out to eat together 😍😍😍 UGH I NEED IRL FRIENDS AGAIN!
 
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Well, I never made a single IRL friend EVER. When I first when to school in real life when I was really young, I was being bullied for my appearance, so I was like, "No, this place isn't for me." So, I went to homeschooling ever since day 1 of a failure joining that school and I never went out to meet anybody else. But, here's how you can make friends. So let's just say that you were at a park; and you see a lot of teenagers playing on swings and such, some people are shy or has social anxiety (like me), but if you're not, you could go over to them and try to meet them to make friends with them. I don't know. I really want to have someone to spend time with in real life than online. I never experienced how it was like having an actual friend. What friends would do is they would come over to your house to play together, video games, music vibing, watching TV, etc. They would also hangout in places in real life like Neo said, friends sleepover sometimes as well. Just anything fun to keep them happy and laughing together! :3
 
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Well, I never made a single IRL friend EVER. When I first when to school in real life when I was really young, I was being bullied for my appearance, so I was like, "No, this place isn't for me." So, I went to homeschooling ever since day 1 of a failure joining that school and I never went out to meet anybody else. But, here's how you can make friends. So let's just say that you were at a park; and you see a lot of teenagers playing on swings and such, some people are shy or has social anxiety (like me), but if you're not, you could go over to them and try to meet them to make friends with them. I don't know. I really want to have someone to spend time with in real life than online. I never experienced how it was like having an actual friend. What friends would do is they would come over to your house to play together, video games, music vibing, watching TV, etc. They would also hangout in places in real life like Neo said, friends sleepover sometimes as well. Just anything fun to keep them happy and laughing together! :3
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AUAUAUAUAU IVE NEVER HAD A SLEEPOVER EXPLODES
 
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CupcakeSnow said:
Well, I never made a single IRL friend EVER. When I first when to school in real life when I was really young, I was being bullied for my appearance, so I was like, "No, this place isn't for me." So, I went to homeschooling ever since day 1 of a failure joining that school and I never went out to meet anybody else. But, here's how you can make friends. So let's just say that you were at a park; and you see a lot of teenagers playing on swings and such, some people are shy or has social anxiety (like me), but if you're not, you could go over to them and try to meet them to make friends with them. I don't know. I really want to have someone to spend time with in real life than online. I never experienced how it was like having an actual friend. What friends would do is they would come over to your house to play together, video games, music vibing, watching TV, etc. They would also hangout in places in real life like Neo said, friends sleepover sometimes as well. Just anything fun to keep them happy and laughing together! :3
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Sleepovers 😦 I am never attending one of those EVER again
 
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It's hard to make irl friends, at least for me because I'm shy, and like things that others don't like. I've been bullied ever since 5th grade; 5th-8th over me exposing that my 1st-4th grade friends were using me for the things I have, so they spread rumors about me and it carried through middle school because of the presence of immature aura there. Then in 9th and 10th, bullied because I play Nintendo instead of ps or xbox. My high school was heavily involved in console wars, so I was unable to make friends. People hid that they were into Nintendo, so it was hard to make out who was actually into playing that console. 11th was purely covid and online school (Impossible to make friends) and by 12th, it was too late. I decided I wanted to stick with my online friends instead of giving up all I had online for real friends. 2020 and 2021 were my most impactful years online, and I blame covid existing for the way I am, and why I have no irl friends today.

But anyway; the advice I have for you, since in today’s day they don’t judge you for the things they judged me for, is be yourself. That’s the only thing you can do, to get true friends and not fake friends. This works for online too, and why I’ve barely obtained any friends online since last year, because no one likes who I am. But, that’s their problem because they don’t know how I really am. They only know me as an admin; and not as a person. I don’t show my immaturity often in fear of judgement of who I am, as people think an admin should be professional and mature at all times. It’s even worse irl when people judge you by how you look, especially this day and age, and to girls specifically because of all the inappropriate-minded guys out there. I personally don’t like that feeling of judgement at all, and because it’s easier to deal with online, that’s why I’ve decided to stick to online and not irl. But like I said, if you want irl friends, the only thing you can do is be the best self you can be, and pray you find people who like/love how you are and the things you love doing from a natural standpoint. =]
 
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