strider
Active member
Eughh, jeez.
Yeah Strider has a heart laugh it up.
So, as none of you know, I have a partner, and have for awhile. We've known eachother for like a million years. Friends since 3rd grade, then in 6th grade I developed a crush, and since we've been pretty close. However we've had quite a few rocky patches- Huge fight at the end of 6th, made up in summer, got together for a bit during 7th grade, then broke up bc I lost feelings. Got together again a little after that summer/early of 8th grade, and we've been together since.
And the feelings lost again. I've learned to register when it's just me settling into the relationship and getting normalized to it, but this is def just loss of feelings. I feel like they're losing it too, particularly because our texts (which used to go on for hours and were funny as hell) are starting to do the thing.
You know. The thing.
However, because of those rocky patches, I dont wanna break it off again if this is one of those things. We have a super platonic relationship anyways. They dont show much affection as it is, and they're ace. I am one of those asshats who needs attention + I'm hyper. Also, recently I've just been thinking abt being with other people and stuff. And I have life plans, they have their own, etc.
Idk if I should end it or stay with them. Ack.
(Yeah I know our relationship has been super wack and honestly I don't think its been a healthy one?)
Yeah Strider has a heart laugh it up.
So, as none of you know, I have a partner, and have for awhile. We've known eachother for like a million years. Friends since 3rd grade, then in 6th grade I developed a crush, and since we've been pretty close. However we've had quite a few rocky patches- Huge fight at the end of 6th, made up in summer, got together for a bit during 7th grade, then broke up bc I lost feelings. Got together again a little after that summer/early of 8th grade, and we've been together since.
And the feelings lost again. I've learned to register when it's just me settling into the relationship and getting normalized to it, but this is def just loss of feelings. I feel like they're losing it too, particularly because our texts (which used to go on for hours and were funny as hell) are starting to do the thing.
You know. The thing.
However, because of those rocky patches, I dont wanna break it off again if this is one of those things. We have a super platonic relationship anyways. They dont show much affection as it is, and they're ace. I am one of those asshats who needs attention + I'm hyper. Also, recently I've just been thinking abt being with other people and stuff. And I have life plans, they have their own, etc.
Idk if I should end it or stay with them. Ack.
(Yeah I know our relationship has been super wack and honestly I don't think its been a healthy one?)
Last edited: