Kick for pumpkin & deletion of this threadEveryone is in the wrong, how should this now be handled by the mods do you think?
I agree with you there.Kick for pumpkin & deletion of this thread
!!!!!!- pumpkin called me she in a voice note
- i replied that im a boy
- they asked if im a femboy
- i said no and that its used as a slur towards trans people
- they said femboy isnt a slur and proceeded to also say tranny
- idc about the femboy part but tranny is definitely a slur
- they apologised and asked to be kicked
- meow ignored that and chose to target dimmy, saying "i checked your kick history, you arent so innocent"
- someone kicked dimmy for saying "so i can say censored words too?" And then swearing
- now we're here
AgreedEven if Pumpkin was trying to explain that trnny is a slur, she still shouldn't have said it. I'm glad she at least apologized for it, but, for someone who has to deal with the said slur constantly a kick would've been reasonable. Especially because it's a said slur that she cannot reclaim. In my opinion, only individuals who are under the trans umbrella can have a say in this. If not. Their word doesn't count because they don't have to deal with them being called the said slur every day of their lives. I don't mean to fuel this up more than it has to be, but I'm just putting my input out there as an individual of this chatroom and the Trans community.
I agree, a kick would be responsible and reasonable, and should end this off fairly for all parties.Even if Pumpkin was trying to explain that trnny is a slur, she still shouldn't have said it. I'm glad she at least apologized for it, but, for someone who has to deal with the said slur constantly a kick would've been reasonable. Especially because it's a said slur that she cannot reclaim. In my opinion, only individuals who are under the trans umbrella can have a say in this. If not. Their word doesn't count because they don't have to deal with them being called the said slur every day of their lives. I don't mean to fuel this up more than it has to be, but I'm just putting my input out there as an individual of this chatroom and the Trans community.
!!!!! This.- pumpkin called me she in a voice note
- i replied that im a boy
- they asked if im a femboy
- i said no and that its used as a slur towards trans people
- they said femboy isnt a slur and proceeded to also say tranny
- idc about the femboy part but tranny is definitely a slur
- they apologised and asked to be kicked
- meow ignored that and chose to target dimmy, saying "i checked your kick history, you arent so innocent"
- someone kicked dimmy for saying "so i can say censored words too?" And then swearing
- now we're here
Yes, they apologised in chat and personally to carly, asked to be kicked to avoid it dragging outPumpkin should’ve been kicked
pretty sure they asked to be kicked too, right?
She was responsible, but that doesn't demine the fact she used it ofc.Yes, they apologised in chat and personally to carly, asked to be kicked to avoid it dragging out
then by that standard, kick pumpkin for saying the slur? maybe be more thoughtful in your wording.I hate the idea of reclaiming slurs. Like I fall under a fair chunk of the umbrellas and still won't say the slur. Please don't say slurs it's that simple ^^
They were kicked nowthen by that standard, kick pumpkin for saying the slur? maybe be more thoughtful in your wording.
“Femboy” most of the time isn’t used as a slur against trans people, the literal meaning of the word is “feminine boy” pumpkin wanted to correct by saying “tranny” is being used against trans people, and not “femboy” and then such a big drama likes this happened, at that moment I could kick everyone for swearing- pumpkin called me she in a voice note
- i replied that im a boy
- they asked if im a femboy
- i said no and that its used as a slur towards trans people
- they said femboy isnt a slur and proceeded to also say tranny
- idc about the femboy part but tranny is definitely a slur
- they apologised and asked to be kicked
- meow ignored that and chose to target dimmy, saying "i checked your kick history, you arent so innocent"
- someone kicked dimmy for saying "so i can say censored words too?" And then swearing
- now we're here
You're missing a point. The term femboy is derogatory for many reasons. I can't comment too much because I'm a trans male, but the term femboy is a derogatory term that people have reffered trans females as. Therefor, nobody should refer to themselves ( or others ) as a femboy in my opinion. Because it's offensive to trans females of the community. Pumpkin was kicked, end of thread, so I won't comment about it anymore. Thank you.“Femboy” most of the time isn’t used as a slur against trans people, the literal meaning of the word is “feminine boy” pumpkin wanted to correct by saying “tranny” is being used against trans people, and not “femboy” and then such a big drama likes this happened, at that moment I could kick everyone for swearing